Today I’ve decided to go back in time to when I was first considering homeschooling. I’ll be honest, it was a scary idea.
First of all, I did not think I had the patience to put up with all of my kids, all day, every day. And I wasn’t surprised the first couple years when I lost my temper, a lot. In fact, the first semester of First grade was the worst. I was feeling a lot of pressure to do school in a traditional way. Ironically I had researched different methods and decided I didn’t want to do traditional, but I was still teaching the way I knew.
But I think I’m getting ahead of myself – let’s start with the basics:
- Why are you considering homeschooling?
- We all have different reasons for this, for some it’s faith-based, for some it’s academics, for some it’s politics, for many it’s the realization that public school and your kid just don’t mix well.
- My reasons are like a recipe of the above, a little of this, a little of that, and a lot of “my kid is too crazy for anyone else!” Heheh!
- One thing a lot of old-school homeschoolers recommend is to write a mission statement for your homeschool. I don’t have one formally spelled out, but it’s given me the foundation I need. Here are a couple great articles on reasons and mission statements:
- What are your concerns about homeschooling?
- Everyone who is new to this has concerns, the key is understanding them. A helpful tool is researching how others addressed the same concerns. I highly recommend searching Pinterest, there is a treasure trove of homeschooling bloggers out there.
- Once you’ve done your research, you can decide if you are convinced enough to try it, or not. (If not, you probably won’t be interested in the rest of this post, but, seriously, Thanks for stopping by!)
- While you are researching your concerns, you should check out the homeschooling laws in your area. I strongly recommend HSLDA for getting all the details and forms that you would need in one place. These guys are priceless!
- Some of the many concerns we have with homeschooling:
- If you ARE still interested in homeschooling, then you need to overcome your fears.
- We all inherently have a fear of the unknown, it is a survival instinct that we are pre-programed with. The trick is conquering it.
- So my method of conquering fear is two-fold;
- Learn everything I can
- Make a plan
- So first, I’ve referred you to Pinterest, and I will add some links throughout, and at the bottom of this article to help you out with research. Such as:
- You Can Homeschool thru the Early Years! (They also have encouragement for Middle and High School years)
- Pre-Trip Planning Checklist Or: (I feel overwhelmed! Where do I begin?)
- Second is what this post is mostly about, making a plan. So on to…
- Figure out which method suits you best.
- If you are really new to this, you’ll be asking yourself, “What in the world is a homeschool method?”
- A homeschool method is the style and set of guiding principles you will use to help you teach and select curriculum. Understanding how you want to teach (and how you actually teach) are important to overcome fears and get a handle on what can be an overwhelming selection of resources.
- Basically, you will learn about at least 5 different methods:
- Traditional – often called school at home
- Classical – modern version of teaching style from ancient Rome & Greece
- Charlotte Mason – focuses on teaching out of real books and nature study
- Unit Studies – uses 5 or 6 week units for teaching subjects
- Unschooling – learning from living life
- Here’s one of many articles detailing these, and other methods: The Ultimate Guide to Homeschool Methods – Teaching Methods 101
- Sometimes, the best way to research different methods is to focus on them one at a time. This way you hear from individual homeschoolers the reasons why they like what they use.
- Once you start to get an idea of the method you want to try, then you can start figuring out what kind of learning styles will work best with your kid(s). You want to make sure you have a good idea of how your child learns best.
- Fortunately there are a number of resources for assessing your child’s strengths and weaknesses. Feel free to search for Learning Style Assessments, but keep in mind that you shouldn’t need to pay for one.
- I couldn’t find the one I used years ago, but here is a fun way to get some ideas: The Learning Style Quiz
- Keep in mind that assessments are meant as guidelines. Don’t prohibit your kids from learning any way they can. I was surprised to find out that my little fireball of a girl, the one who NEVER stops moving, actually enjoys worksheets. Granted, she does them while sitting on top of the school table, but, hey, she’s learning.
- So you’ve figured out your reasons, your method, and your child(ren)’s learning style, now can we get to curriculum?
- Yes, now you are armed and prepared to venture into the curriculum market.
- My first step to choosing curriculum was reading reviews of other moms and the choices they made for their kids, especially if they are using the same method (or variant thereof).
- Actually, I can’t think of any of my curriculum that I wasn’t referred to by another homeschool mom, either online or in person (except Scripture Study).
- Of course, you’re welcome to see what I’m using: My 2017-2018 Curriculum Plan
- I also like this article, it’s short and simple, but it gets you thinking: Where to Buy Used Homeschool Books
- After you have your choices in your hot little hands, it’s time to plan out your year of lessons. Don’t rush yourself unless you have to, my first year it took me at least 4 weeks to put together my lesson plan. It took less than a week the next year.
- Your first step is to go through the chapter titles and read through the first lesson. Do this the night you get your books (if you can) to get a feel for what you’ve signed up for. If you realize you don’t like it, don’t feel guilty about returning it and trying something else.
- Some curriculum is easy to plan, 1 lesson per day. Others are not as easy, especially if your kid is a third of the way through the year already. If you are in that situation, where your kid has part of a year’s work done, but is clearly not ready for the next year, then you will need to go through the curriculum more carefully during your planning period.
- I went through and combined or skipped several lessons that my son was past. From some lessons, I would only use one point in order to serve as a review. In that way, he didn’t get bored dragging his feet through something he had already mastered.
- Don’t forget that YOU are the teacher now, you control what you want your kids to learn, not a school district, state, or nation. Though there are homeschool laws you need to be mindful of, they don’t decide the day-to-day learning needs of your kid. That’s all you!
- If you are spreadsheet person, I have an example of how I planned my first year for you here (there’s a lot of real life in here, because this is the version at the end of the year, I updated it every week with our progress): Lesson Plan_First Grade
- By now you should be ready to get started.
- Be sure to hit the back-to-school sales at Walmart and stock up on pencils, paper, and crayons.
- Here is one of many school supply lists: Back to Homeschool Shopping List
- Start day one with some pictures and celebrating, get excited and your kids will be too.
- You can also use a First Day of School worksheet like this one (feel free to shorten it, my kids never get through the whole thing): First Day of School Interview
- Have fun! And don’t try to do too much too fast!
- Finally, forgive yourself and your kid(s) for bad days. You and they will have them.
- You may even end up with a lot of them when you start. If that’s the case, you’re probably trying to do too much in a day.
- Part of my trouble my first year, was that I tried to do every subject every day. I gave myself a LOT of work in preparation each day, and I couldn’t keep up. I was also putting a lot of pressure on my oldest to get his assignments done because we needed to get on to the next assignment. It did NOT work well for us.
- Fortunately I had a some more experienced friends in church that helped me see I was doing too much. It really is ok to do one lesson per subject per week. You don’t have to get through a book in a year. If you still want to finish one book per year, you can skip lessons or combine them so you have a block of each subject each week.
- I have some core subjects that my kids have to do independently, and then I teach 1 or 2 lessons per school day. That way we still get done what we need to, and I don’t go insane. Heheh!
- Here are a couple of articles on overcoming bad days:
- 10 Ways to Cope with Frustration When Your Homeschooler Doesn’t “Get It”
- 5 Ways to Reset a Bad Homeschooling Day (be sure to find and click on the Next button in this post)
However you do it, make sure it works for your family. Have fun and enjoy the journey!
As I was driving around last week, I was reflecting on what it would be like if my kids went to public school. What I could do with all that time! And then I realized that I would probably mope and feel lonely without them. My kids give me so much love and encouragement throughout the day, even when they don’t mean to, that I realized I would miss them. I know now that even if I could afford pay a tutor to teach them all the things that I think they would need, I would miss them too much to get anything done. I am grateful to be homeschooling and I hope you can be too!
I hope this has given you some ideas that help. Here are some other resources you may enjoy:
- Explore & Plan Homeschool Pinterest Board – lots of pins about homeschooling
- A Missing Piece that Public School Can’t Provide – one mom’s reflection on her kids’ learning
- Teaching Your Kids – a huge wealth of articles from HSLDA
- Suggested Encouragement Resources – links to encouragement